Young Man, Older Woman ~

If I’m writing about it I must be living it…right? Not always true but I will admit there is always some truth in what I write. I’ve been known to stir a few pots in my time. Sooooo, keeping all that in mind lets get into it.

Ladies, has it ever been a fantasy of yours to be with a much younger man? Many woman dream of this scenario, as do many young men so I’ve been told. If the two can find one another I imagine it could be quite the encounter.

I look at the whole male energy not just the age. I decided a couple of years ago I was going to experience those who came into my life for who they are, however long they decide to stay regardless of age. I have no expectations of what anything should or should not be in regard to relationships. I refuse to slot anyone because of their age, young or older. Basically, I have no plan.

It’s really all about what your intention is. I have girlfriends who are completely turned on by the younger male energy and those who are equally turned on by the older male energy. Age is just a number and is a general guide as to where someone is in life. There is always an exception to every rule.

I’ve met quite a few younger men over the last couple of years, not sure why but I suppose it could be my age, or simply the energy I put out or just the fact that I’m a flirt. It’s the look behind a mans eyes that initially draws me to him not his age. Not all younger guys are just looking for a quick romp with a more experienced woman. I think the younger men who are not just looking for the older woman fantasy are attracted to a womans attitude and confidence not their age. Younger woman in general don’t seem to be as secure in their own skin which is a shame. I remember feeling like that in my 20’s. I am much more comfortable in the skin I’m in now. Older women generally know what they like, who they are, where they are going and are not afraid to enjoy life and EAT!

A couple of weeks ago I went to a local pub with two girlfriends Sandi and Tannia. There just so happened to be a 10 year grad-reunion taking place that night, ya I know, couldn’t have planned that better…I mean how annoying is that! lol The pub was FULL of 28 year olds, and this post was in the draft file. I had to go in…for research! We walked in the door and said “Crap, a bunch of young hot flirty guys, we really should go somewhere else!” We tried to leave but we got all disoriented and couldn’t find the way out…”look something shiny.” There may have been girls there too I can’t remember. You could have called it a cougar buffet. (not that any of us are) Nothing wrong with some good clean fun at the pub, if you’re into that sort of thing. On a serious note we met a few really great guys who entertained us with their wit and charm and have become friends.

I will also go on record right now with saying it has never been a fantasy of mine to be with a much younger man. I have girlfriends who are 25 and 65 and see no reason why I can’t hang out with a young guy who is athletic authentic. No harm no foul! I like being called dude, it’s kinda cute. I do prefer the sound of a low sexy male voice calling me babe, but that’s just me. 🙂

So to conclude this post I will say for me, personally it’s about the guy, not his age. Age for me has absolutely nothing to do with who I chose to spend my time with intimately or otherwise…so if you see me out with a young guy whose half my age plus 7 or a ridiculously handsome sexy older man (wayyyy more likely), you will know without a doubt he has intrigued me with more than his birth year! It’s simply not every older woman’s fantasy to be with a much younger man. Not that theres anything wrong with it! My advice…if you have to hide something you’re doing you probably shouldn’t be doing him it!





9 thoughts on “Young Man, Older Woman ~

  1. You never cease to amaze me dear girl. Loved this article whether living it or not. Our cups are always full. We only go around once in this world so make the most of the journey. xo

  2. Ha ha! You’re so funny!

    As you know I’ve dated both older and way younger in my dating days. One thing that is interesting though is the way people react to an older woman dating a younger guy…it’s still frowned upon. The other way around is perfectly acceptable apparently! You are right though, it’s not about the age but the substance of the relationship…depends what you are looking for sometimes. 😉

  3. 🙂 I like that you have crossed out certain ‘error’s instead of deleting them – thinking one way but meant another but both work and it gives a little giggle to the piece. I was always attracted to / felt more comfortable with, older woman when I was younger, but now I am like you. Sex appeal is one thing, but someone you can talk to all night long and still wish the nights weren’t so short, age has no boundaries on such a connection. Love your honesty. ‘This is me. Book open.’ 🙂

    • I have to agree Lawrence, it’s the connection we are all looking for ultimately and that has to include conversation for me. If we can’t talk for hours before and or after we are intimate we are missing a key ingredient…in my opinion. Book open…yes the only way to be my dear handsome friend! xo

  4. I met 20 yr old Gavin when I was 18 and we’ve been together for 30 years. I can only imagine what dating would be like were I to be single now. I think I’d be attracted to guys older and younger. Would I be comfortable in a long term relationship with someone a lot younger or older than myself? Who knows. It would depend on what each individual wanted from the relationship. As kids are so important to me, I’d be afraid a younger man would one day regret not having any (Ashton Kutcher). With a much older man I’d be fearful of losing him too soon (Michael Douglas). I guess you’d just have to take one day at a time and see where life takes you.

Leave a Reply

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.