If you can’t be with the one you love, love the one your with. Really? Why not just leave the one your with, to be with the one you love. Whether or not you know who that person is, doesn’t it make sense to move forward and at least see if that person exists? Are you getting ‘enough’ out of life if your not living truthfully.
I have been joking lately on Facebook how I have a “I like married men” magnet hidden somewhere on my person that I can’t find to remove, I am going to drag myself across the demagnetizer at the local electronic store to see if I can deactivate it. I attract married men and I am starting to wonder if there is a reason I am unaware of. Is it because I am putting out a ‘I’m single’ pheromone. Or is it that I am sending out a energy that I don’t want to be committed…yet. I admit married men are great to flirt with because it feels safe, it can’t go any further than the flirt. So maybe it is me and not them.
Here is what I came up with in my search on the Internet. Recently single women have an energy, zest for life and confidence to go after their dreams, married men admire what you have and they want a hit of your high energy.
Energetically you feel like you are on shaky ground and so you may be insecure even though a huge good transition is just around the corner in your life.
The combination of the vulnerability and your future potential success and strength is what these married guys are attracted to. They are not happy in their own lives and so they want to have a fantasy experience with someone who does not have all the complications and responsibilities they are saddled with. While this is selfish thinking and some of these men may just be players there are some who really are just unhappy and not able or willing to make the changes they need to in their lives. It takes a huge amount of courage to make lasting change. They then look for ways to alleviate their anger, frustration and boredom and ladies you come along with your great energy and personal power and they want to just be in that energy even if it is only for a little while.
So what is wrong with the single guys then? That is a great question! While you have really strong personal power and great energy that they would love, the simple answer is that the single guys are intimidated. They see that you have a plan and goals and focus on the future and they just don’t know how to handle this kind of woman. Now this is not to say that all single guys are like that but you will find as you really raise your own energy signature the more difficult it is for men to relate to you. You may find less men to choose from but the the quality is better and THAT is what counts! Well that sounds promising doesn’t it !
Remember that who you attract into your life is more about what you are doing right than what you are doing wrong in many cases. We draw certain people into our lives at various times because we have different lessons to learn. I have to agree with some of this but do also think there is more to it and each situation obviously has it’s own set of circumstances.
I think as we age we start to question who we are and if we are getting everything we can out of life. We start to grow and unfold, feelings of being independent start to creep in, and with that comes a whole slew of new discoveries within ourselves. We have been with the same some what predictable person for so long that we can’t help but look around for someone new to be intrigued by. I don’t judge, never have, never will, but I do question both sides of this connection that could potentially be made. What am I putting out there, and what are you looking to fill? Are we getting enough? Enough love, friendship, freedom, spontaneity, affection, SEX, variety, compliments, stimulating conversation, enough fulfillment in everything we do, that will bring us true happiness. I think if we are being fulfilled within ourselves we will find true happiness.
So perhaps there is more to this than I thought. I will continue down my path in life with no judgement and look for the lessons along the way.